We are all loved so much- our parents, friends, God- all love us so much. They are ready to sacrifice, denounce, and share all with us.
Yet, don’t you think, that the love they give us is, “incomplete”? Don’t you think, that there’s something lacking? Yes, they definitely give you all that you want, they will stand up for you when you need them, they’ll keep all your secrets- but there’s something that’s still lacking- that even you don’t know even you don’t give a thought to.
There’s something about them, which even you disagree with.
In the journey of life, there are many things that happen, which we keep to ourselves. Although thinking about those occurrences may hurt us, or, elate us, we don’t tell it to anyone. Every moment, there are a thousand thoughts in our head, but we ignore them. We have best friends, parents, siblings, confidantes- but do we “really” and “completely” confide in them? There is so much that we keep to ourselves, that we keep out of their reach- our deepest thoughts, ideas, desires. Why?
Because they’re not going to keep it confidential? No. Because they’re themselves, maybe they won’t understand us. Maybe they’ll laugh at us- there’s doubt of whether they’ll really feel what we feel. Doubt, that they won’t think the way we do. Because every individual is not the same and we’re different from them in some way.
There’s love- but there’s not similarity- of thought, deed and many other things. We are free, yet we behave in the way in which they’ll be comfortable with- we adjust- we make many compromises. Why? Because they’re not “always” comfortable with us.
Isn’t there a need for a relationship where you can be yourself, where there’s someone who you can tell everything you didn’t tell anyone, where there will no need to adjust because you both are comfortable with each other, and even of there is- you will readily do so, someone with whom you can be yourself, a heart that beats only for you- yes, there is a need for such a relationship.
Yet, don’t you think, that the love they give us is, “incomplete”? Don’t you think, that there’s something lacking? Yes, they definitely give you all that you want, they will stand up for you when you need them, they’ll keep all your secrets- but there’s something that’s still lacking- that even you don’t know even you don’t give a thought to.
There’s something about them, which even you disagree with.
In the journey of life, there are many things that happen, which we keep to ourselves. Although thinking about those occurrences may hurt us, or, elate us, we don’t tell it to anyone. Every moment, there are a thousand thoughts in our head, but we ignore them. We have best friends, parents, siblings, confidantes- but do we “really” and “completely” confide in them? There is so much that we keep to ourselves, that we keep out of their reach- our deepest thoughts, ideas, desires. Why?
Because they’re not going to keep it confidential? No. Because they’re themselves, maybe they won’t understand us. Maybe they’ll laugh at us- there’s doubt of whether they’ll really feel what we feel. Doubt, that they won’t think the way we do. Because every individual is not the same and we’re different from them in some way.
There’s love- but there’s not similarity- of thought, deed and many other things. We are free, yet we behave in the way in which they’ll be comfortable with- we adjust- we make many compromises. Why? Because they’re not “always” comfortable with us.
Isn’t there a need for a relationship where you can be yourself, where there’s someone who you can tell everything you didn’t tell anyone, where there will no need to adjust because you both are comfortable with each other, and even of there is- you will readily do so, someone with whom you can be yourself, a heart that beats only for you- yes, there is a need for such a relationship.
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