All My dear friends,
I'm any teenager like you- happy - go lucky, fun - loving... this was the first time I had read any chicken soup book. And it accidently happened to be Chicken Soup for the teenage soul.
I know there are many Chicken Soup readers out there. And I also know that they must've loved it- its romantic, has tender emotions, makes you dream and feel the longing that every girl feels. But what I saw was something very instigating- that every heartbreak was of a girl and that girls were abused in love, that all the GIRLS were infatuated with guys and that its the guys who ridicule the girls who get emotionally involved with them.
What does all this mean girls?? Does it mean that we are emotional fools, that we can't control our emotions, that we are easily swayed by just good looks and blue eyes, that we are romantic fools?... its all bad and seems to be very insulting but as a matter of fact- WE ARE.
My dad told me something, which I think is meant for every girl out there. And for every teenager too.
" Teenage is an age when we all of us are very vulnerable- emotionally. Specially the girls. We all realise the feelings that were concieved for a very long time. And we all become aware of them. We feel an ascertained sense of freedom. We become a bit more responsible. And fairly irresponsible too. Because we are emotionally vulnerable and this is the point of life when we can't handle them. This is a point of life when we are not sure about our motives, when we don't know who we are, what we should do. Many of you may have a goal in life, but your goals are undirected.
And this is when we face infatuations and so-called, "crushes" on boys. And this is the time when our strenghts and weaknesses come into light. This is when it is tested as to how much control we have- on our emotions, our desires. And many of us fail the test. In fact its only one out of hundred girls who passes the test.
You asked me why it is that girls fall prey to the traps of guys? My dear, please keep in mind that they are GIRLS. And girls are very vulnerable and playful by nature. It is this playful nature that makes them fall into traps without them realising it. Girls are basically very soft at heart.
You asked me why did the girls get abused by the boys? Girls play the roles of mothers in their later years. These maternal emotions are mildly manifested when they come of age. When she sees that the person she loves is in a problem, she wants to save him and as this is the person she loves, she can go to any extent to get him out of danger. Just as a mother protects her child who is not so good and falling into bad ways, just as she showers that child with more affection, that girl loves her partner more deliberately.
These girls get swayed my romantic talks, promises and they even disagree with their family and friends at that time."
We girls should realise that getting infatuated is just answering nature's call. We are originally animals, but we are "humans". And as we are humans, we are more intellectually developed than other animals, right? So it is not necessary to have boyfriends, or it doesn't matter if a guy likes you, there is a time for everything. A time will come in everyone's life when she will find the man who truly loves her, who will TRULY get the stars out of the sky for her.
I'm any teenager like you- happy - go lucky, fun - loving... this was the first time I had read any chicken soup book. And it accidently happened to be Chicken Soup for the teenage soul.
I know there are many Chicken Soup readers out there. And I also know that they must've loved it- its romantic, has tender emotions, makes you dream and feel the longing that every girl feels. But what I saw was something very instigating- that every heartbreak was of a girl and that girls were abused in love, that all the GIRLS were infatuated with guys and that its the guys who ridicule the girls who get emotionally involved with them.
What does all this mean girls?? Does it mean that we are emotional fools, that we can't control our emotions, that we are easily swayed by just good looks and blue eyes, that we are romantic fools?... its all bad and seems to be very insulting but as a matter of fact- WE ARE.
My dad told me something, which I think is meant for every girl out there. And for every teenager too.
" Teenage is an age when we all of us are very vulnerable- emotionally. Specially the girls. We all realise the feelings that were concieved for a very long time. And we all become aware of them. We feel an ascertained sense of freedom. We become a bit more responsible. And fairly irresponsible too. Because we are emotionally vulnerable and this is the point of life when we can't handle them. This is a point of life when we are not sure about our motives, when we don't know who we are, what we should do. Many of you may have a goal in life, but your goals are undirected.
And this is when we face infatuations and so-called, "crushes" on boys. And this is the time when our strenghts and weaknesses come into light. This is when it is tested as to how much control we have- on our emotions, our desires. And many of us fail the test. In fact its only one out of hundred girls who passes the test.
You asked me why it is that girls fall prey to the traps of guys? My dear, please keep in mind that they are GIRLS. And girls are very vulnerable and playful by nature. It is this playful nature that makes them fall into traps without them realising it. Girls are basically very soft at heart.
You asked me why did the girls get abused by the boys? Girls play the roles of mothers in their later years. These maternal emotions are mildly manifested when they come of age. When she sees that the person she loves is in a problem, she wants to save him and as this is the person she loves, she can go to any extent to get him out of danger. Just as a mother protects her child who is not so good and falling into bad ways, just as she showers that child with more affection, that girl loves her partner more deliberately.
These girls get swayed my romantic talks, promises and they even disagree with their family and friends at that time."
We girls should realise that getting infatuated is just answering nature's call. We are originally animals, but we are "humans". And as we are humans, we are more intellectually developed than other animals, right? So it is not necessary to have boyfriends, or it doesn't matter if a guy likes you, there is a time for everything. A time will come in everyone's life when she will find the man who truly loves her, who will TRULY get the stars out of the sky for her.
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